Raising boys is an adventure—filled with boundless energy, curiosity, and countless teachable moments. Every day brings a mix of laughter, endless questions, and challenges that stretch my patience and expand my heart. Boys explore their world with such intensity that it often feels like they’re on a mission to test every limit. As their mom, it’s my privilege to nurture their wild spirits while teaching them kindness, respect, and faith. Proverbs 22:6 reminds me, “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” This verse gives me confidence as I guide my boys with love and God’s wisdom, trusting that the values I instill will stay with them throughout their lives.
1. Energy is Endless
Boys come with an abundance of energy! My 7-year-old is always on the move—from climbing trees to asking me to join him in every activity. Meanwhile, my 6-month-old is already rolling, wiggling, and eager to explore. Their endless energy can be exhausting, but it’s also contagious. I’ve learned that finding positive outlets for their enthusiasm, like outdoor play, sports, or creative projects, is essential. Their zest for life is a constant reminder to embrace the moment and keep up (even when I’m tired!).
2. Rough-and-Tumble Play
There’s something about boys that draws them to rough-and-tumble play. Wrestling, jumping, and climbing come naturally, and it’s not about aggression—it’s how they learn their limits and grow. My 7-year-old loves to wrestle with his dad, and I’m so thankful for “Dad strength.” While I tire out quickly, my husband can keep up with him for hours! Through play, we’ve been able to teach our son about boundaries, self-control, and respect. Watching them grow stronger and more confident through physical expression has been amazing.
3. Emotions Are Real
There’s a misconception that boys are less emotional, but I’ve found the opposite to be true. My 7-year-old feels everything deeply—his joy, frustration, and excitement are all expressed loudly! Sometimes it can be a challenge to help him navigate these big feelings, but it’s so important to teach him that emotions are normal and healthy. Giving him tools to express himself and helping him calm down in overwhelming moments has been a transformative part of our parenting journey.
4. Curiosity Fuels Learning
Boys are naturally curious, constantly asking questions and exploring the world around them. My 7-year-old loves figuring out how things work and often bombards me with endless questions. When I don’t know the answer, we explore together—whether it’s through books, crafts, or asking Alexa! Encouraging his curiosity has been such a rewarding part of raising him. Meanwhile, my 6-month-old is just starting to reach for things and take in his surroundings with wide-eyed wonder. Their curiosity keeps me on my toes and reminds me of the joy of learning.
5. Faith and Values Matter
One of the greatest gifts I can give my boys is a foundation of faith and strong values. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.” This verse has been a guiding light for me as I raise them. Teaching my sons to love God, respect others, and act with integrity lays the groundwork for a life of purpose. Even when I don’t have all the answers, knowing that God is part of their journey brings me peace and hope for their future.
Raising boys is a beautiful adventure—messy, exhausting, and full of joy. Each lesson they’ve taught me has shaped me as much as it has shaped them. Watching my 7-year-old’s curiosity blossom and experiencing my baby’s first giggles fills me with gratitude every day. I’m excited to see the men they’ll grow up to be, and I’m thankful for the privilege of walking this journey with them.
What’s been the most surprising or rewarding part of your parenting journey so far? I’d love to hear about your experiences raising boys, girls, or both!
Boy Mom💙